It is often difficult for a woman to understand how a guy treats her. This applies to both unfamiliar men and regular partners. At some point, it becomes unclear what to count on in the future and how serious his intentions are. Then you have to come up with ways to check a man’s feelings, since it can be awkward to ask directly.

How to check if a man loves you?

There is no need to rush in this matter. remember, that everyone loves in their own way and perhaps your partner shows feelings as best he can. And if his behavior does not meet your expectations, this does not mean that he does not love you. Therefore, first try to understand it. When that doesn't work, push:

Get started act indifferent. Psychologists believe that this is one of the most reliable ways to get a man to “ clean water" If he is interested in you, he will worry, ask what happened, call more often, show attention;
Or you can leave, few pass the test of distance. You will immediately feel care and attention even if you are far away, if he is really bored;
Tell him you want to introduce him to his parents. This is a crucial moment; he will immediately understand the seriousness of your intentions. And he will either agree that he already means something, or he will simply disappear from the horizon.

So, main advice - watch. Notice whether he cares, worries, listens to your opinion and gives in.

A person remembers only important information

pay attention to little things, sometimes they help to create a more complete picture of what is happening. When something is important to us, we try to remember it or write it down so as not to forget. Whether it's an unmissable event or a phone number.

The same situation is with the young man. Remember, does he always congratulate you on your birthday, does he remember when your mother’s anniversary is? Or he regularly misses these events.

It is also important whether he remembers your phone number by heart or can only name it by looking in the address book of his smartphone. If the device is lost, he will not be able to contact you if he did not try to learn the treasured numbers.

Of course, circumstances are different, and this is far from an indicator of an indifferent attitude if he forgot to wish you a happy birthday. There could be important things to do - work or study, or I was tired. There is no need to sound the alarm. But such events still leave an imprint and form a certain opinion in his direction.

How to test a man for the sincerity of his feelings?

Also note, how he behaves when he's around. There are things that show how he feels about you on a subconscious level. This is an elementary concern:

Does he help carry heavy bags, does he hold the door;
How does he respond to requests for help and assistance?
How to say goodbye. Re-read the messages, see what words come at the end, whether they speak of tenderness and care.

If you cannot objectively assess his behavior, ask a friend to help. Spend a few weekends or evenings together and let her observe. Just choose for these purposes a person who can be entrusted with such sensitive topics.

What should you not do?

The main thing now is not to do anything stupid. Some women go to extremes and then regret their mistakes. Noticing that you are trying to test him, a man may be offended.

He will also begin to distrust and the matter may end in separation. To prevent this from happening do not do it:

Make you jealous. Light flirting with another in the presence of your loved one, late phone calls or other similar tricks can convince him that you are cheating. Then he will either simply get up and leave, or he will also slowly cheat, feeling the right to do so;
Tempt. Do not try to test its reliability using beautiful girlfriend. Sometimes girls do this, they ask their neighbor to meet the guy to see how he does. Often this ends with a neighbor's wedding to your boyfriend.

The best way to clarify the situation - talk or at least hint that you are tormented by doubts. Explain what you are missing, what is unclear. This is an honest and courageous act that deserves respect. And most importantly, it will help get rid of misunderstandings.

How do men test women for availability?

Guys are treacherous people too. They sometimes weave intrigues not worse than women. To understand which girl is more accessible and what feelings she experiences, the guys come up with different “moves”:

They make you jealous, start talking about ex-girlfriends. How to react to this? The best option- listen with restraint and simply not continue this topic;
They go with her to an expensive store. There, they offer you to choose whatever you like. In this way, the essence of a woman becomes visible: one will rush to buy everything, another will refuse because it is expensive, and the third will buy a shirt for her beloved;
Meet friends and watch them. If the girl’s surroundings are her associates who are preoccupied with finding a husband with money and conversations constantly revolve around financial well-being, the young man can draw the conclusion that he cannot afford the chosen one;
They may try to find out reliability this way in a cunning way- send SMS from friends’ numbers with offers to meet;
Or they might even talk a friend into trying to have an affair.

Again, the best way to respond to this type of behavior is frank conversation. Find out what's going on, why is he giving you exams? You will disarm him with your directness, and he will have no choice but to admit what he did.

Mistrust is a disadvantage modern man. We constantly look for the catch in people, look closely at them, listen. And we often offend them with this. Therefore, before you think about how to check the feelings of a man or girl, decide that maybe time will put everything in its place and there is no need to rush.

Video: feelings test

In this video, psychologist Diana Volodina will tell you how to find out with 99.9% accuracy how a man feels towards you, how much he cares about you:

Do you want to know how your man treats you and what you can expect from your relationship with him?

First, answer the questions, count the points, and then in the answers choose the zodiac sign to which your lover belongs.

For answer:
a) score yourself 4 points,
b) – 3 points,
c) – 2 points,
d) – 1 point.

Questions

1. Does your man pick you up from work?
a) always;
b) only if we are going somewhere together after work;
c) never;
d) we work together.

2. Does your man give you flowers?
a) yes;
b) yes, on March 8 and on your birthday;
c) if I ask him about it;
d) no.

3. Do you talk to your man about the future?
a) yes, we often discuss plans for our future together;
b) yes, if the future is next evening;
c) no, I’m afraid to jinx it;
d) no, my man is annoyed by such conversations.

4. How does your man react to other people's children?
a) is touched, but does not take him in his arms;
b) indifferent;
c) begins to lisp and squeeze;
d) hints that it’s time for you to have a baby.

5. Do you go to visit both his and your friends?
a) yes, we often make joint visits. We have many mutual friends;
b) yes, for birthdays and weddings;
c) no, he doesn’t like my friends and doesn’t introduce me to his friends;
d) no, he believes that everyone has the right to privacy.

6. Do you live together or separately?
a) we live together;
b) we are planning to live together in the near future;
c) no, we would like to, but there is no such opportunity;
d) no, our relationship is not that close.

7. Does your man help you with housework?
a) yes, he has his own responsibilities;
b) yes, when I ask him for something;
c) no, he’s too busy at work and I don’t want to burden him;
d) no, he doesn’t care about my problems.

8. Do you often talk to each other about love?
a) yes, we regularly confess our feelings;
b) no, my man is scared by such conversations;
c) no, we once found out that we love each other, and we no longer return to this conversation;
d) no, it’s too early to talk about feelings.

9. Does your man give you reasons for jealousy?
a) no, I trust him completely;
b) maybe it does, I just don’t think about it;
c) yes, he likes to tease me;
d) yes, he often pays attention to other women in front of me.

10. Does your man sacrifice his interests for you?
a) yes, my life is more important to him;
b) yes, but not vital. He may not go to friends when I have a headache, but he won’t give up work to see me;
c) no, he is too selfish;
d) no, he doesn’t think about the fact that this is important to me.

11. Do you often quarrel with your lover?
a) no, we have nothing to share;
b) no, I yield to him in everything;
c) no, my man extinguishes conflicts in the bud;
d) yes, we often cannot come to an agreement.

12. Did you break up “forever”?
a) we regularly separate, but cannot live without each other for more than three days;
b) no, we haven’t had such situations yet;
c) yes, at the very beginning of the relationship;
d) we are still separated.

Count your points. Remember who your chosen one is according to your horoscope, look at the answers for his sign and find out the whole truth about his feelings for you.

Aries
If you scored 40-48 points
Your man takes you very seriously, he is making plans for your future together, even if he has not voiced them yet. But he will take out your trash without any reminders and will take care of you, gradually arranging your everyday life. He considers himself responsible for everything that happens to you, and in the future he will take responsibility for raising children.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your man will be with you, but only if you yourself keep him close to you, take the initiative into your own hands and “lead him along with you on a string.” You will have to push and guide him throughout your life, constantly reminding him that he loves you.
If you scored 22-30 points
Your man will never put you first in his life; his own life and work are too important to him. He may appear in your life on rare weekends, but he will frankly make you understand that you should not count on more.
If you score 12-21 points
This man is not very interested in you. Are you sure that he treats you as a woman he loves or likes, and not just as a convenient and reliable friend? Although this is not bad - Aries know how to value friendship, and if you do not claim his heart, you can become an important part of his life.

Taurus

If you scored 40-48 points
Your Taurus sees you as their soulmate. He is madly in love and is not shy about his feelings. Although sometimes he quarrels with you, this is a consequence of his mood, not hostility. You will be fine with this person if you do not give him reasons for jealousy. He will not forgive you for betrayal, even if he loves you very much.
If you scored 31-39 points
Don't put pressure on your lover! You are suitable for him as a soul mate, but he clings too much to his freedom. You should not speculate on your love and experience his feelings by reporting an imaginary pregnancy. He is too stubborn, so he will not accept your conditions.
If you scored 22-30 points
He plays with your feelings, but he himself is in love with someone else or has not yet decided on his attitude towards you. He is satisfied with your relationship, since he believes that it does not oblige him to anything. As soon as you start tightening the screws, he will run away, and without explanation.
If you score 12-21 points
The one you consider to be your lover is indifferent to you and only dates you because there is no one else around. You should not expect that he will change his attitude - as soon as he likes another woman and she reciprocates his feelings, you will not see him again.

Twins
If you scored 40-48 points
Your man not only loves you, but is also proud of you. It gives him pleasure to brag about his possession of such a woman; he believes that you are completely suitable for him, even if you are 10 years older than him or 15 centimeters taller. And as long as you evoke his admiration and the admiration of his friends, he will be happy to be around. Don't disappoint him.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your man sees you as a protector or mother, perhaps he lacked a firm hand, and he trusted you when he realized that he could count on you. Just don’t show him that you’ve figured out his plan - Geminis are painfully vain, and it’s difficult for your lover to admit even to himself that he needs guidance.
If you scored 22-30 points
This man is guided only by his own interests. If he is with you, it means he needs something from you. Think about how often he asks you for something or demands something? Meanwhile, he is not ready for any worthwhile deed for your sake; he is used to receiving, not giving. How long are you willing to endure the “one-sided game”? Maybe it's time for you to look for someone else?
If you score 12-21 points
Quarrels and disagreements are the basis of a relationship with this man, he doesn’t love you, so everything about you irritates him. Tyranny and eternal discontent will not allow the relationship to develop; you will not be able to create a normal family with him. And if for some reason he marries you, he will demand gratitude from you all his life.

Cancer
If you scored 40-48 points
Your loved one is ready to build a house for you, plant a tree and give birth to a son himself. It is important for him that you are next to him, he already perceives you as his wife, even if for some reason you do not live together. He will be faithful to you all his life, will make your life convenient and comfortable. Just try to match his ideas about the ideal wife, mistress and mother of his children.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your man is not yet ready to trust you with cooking in his kitchen, but he has already found a place for your toothbrush in his glass. He takes a closer look at you, evaluates your potential family qualities, and admits the possibility that you will become his wife. Do you want to be with him? Show that home and everyday life are as important to you as they are to him.
If you scored 22-30 points
Your man is keeping you at a distance because something in your behavior or character goes against his values in life. Maybe he's annoyed by your business activities, or maybe you just don't know how to cook. Cancers rarely choose a businesswoman as a life partner, since for them a woman is the keeper of the hearth, and not a money-making machine.
If you score 12-21 points
You and your man are absolutely not suitable for each other, you are too different, and your lover understands this very well. He is ready to sleep with you occasionally, but you are not even suitable for meeting his parents. Perhaps you are too different from his mother for him to introduce you to her, or perhaps his mother saw you once and expressed her very unflattering opinion about you.

a lion
If you scored 40-48 points
Your man is fascinated by you. He keeps your portrait in his wallet or on the nightstand near the bed (on his phone, on his desk, etc.). And as long as love lives in his heart, he will shower you with gifts, shower you with flowers, and... try to lock you at home so that no one steals you. He will not tolerate competition. If you want to continue to remain the lady of his heart, under no circumstances show that there are still men in this world. Convinced of his uniqueness, your man will propose to you.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your man is also considering other candidates, although you are his number one. He does not want to make hasty decisions; it is important for him to choose the best from the good. If you can prove that you are an ideal, he will go with you to the ends of the earth or down the aisle. If you fail, write a complaint against yourself. You had your chances.
If you scored 22-30 points
This man plays with you like a cat and a mouse. He perceives you as just another fan with whom he doesn’t have to stand on ceremony, because he understands that you won’t get away from him anyway. And if you get away, it’s no big deal, he has a lot of people like you. He will appreciate you more if you show that you also have self-esteem, character and your own personal, private life.
If you score 12-21 points
Run away from this man. Otherwise, he will break you, ruin your life, but will never call you his wife. You were an episode for him, and, bored, you turned into a hindrance. And if he hasn’t told you about it yet, it’s simply because he didn’t have time for it. He doesn’t value you and won’t value you anymore, since he’s not interested in you.

Virgo
If you scored 40-48 points
What a score. It is difficult to imagine a more devoted and patient husband. Your man will look after you beautifully, proving his feelings not with words, but with actions. Don't expect compliments from him - he's not a master at talking. But he will always wash the dishes, walk your dog and take you shopping, without whining or pushing you with purchases. Behind him you will be like behind a stone wall. Just don't nag him. He can't stand this.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your man will be with you, but not only with you. He will not give up his friends or work for you, and the more you reproach him for his inattention, the wider the gap between you will be. If you calmly accept his absences, in gratitude he, sooner or later, will not want to leave you anywhere.
If you scored 22-30 points
Do you know what this man needs from you? Clean shirts, delicious dinner and easy sex. He is comfortable with you, but he himself is not ready to give up any of his habits, nor any of his old acquaintances who are ready to listen to his stories on the phone. Maybe deep down he is grateful to you for the comfort you have created, but, in essence, this does not change anything.
If you score 12-21 points
If you still continue to stay with this man, you are simply a masochist. You seem to enjoy setting unrealistic goals for yourself and pursuing them with a tenacity worthy of better use. Otherwise, why do you need a man for whom you are an “empty place”?

Scales
If you scored 40-48 points
Your man has finally decided on his future program. He chose you and is now just waiting for an opportunity to arrange his confession and proposal beautifully and magnificently. He has already planned your entire future life together until the grandchildren's wedding. The main thing is that when he begins to initiate you into these plans, you do not disagree with him. For example, in the name of the first-born.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your loved one has not yet decided whether he wants to see you as a wife or whether you are satisfied with him as a mistress. Maybe he loves you, but something is holding him back from making a final decision. Perhaps he has already had a negative experience family life or he is simply afraid of rejection. Try to gently hint to him that the Mendelssohn march is your favorite music.
If you scored 22-30 points
Do not rush your lover, do not impose your decisions and views on him. As soon as he feels that you are putting pressure on him, all that will be left of him is a memory. In your relationship with him, everything is already fragile and ambiguous. Most likely, not only has he not determined a place for you in his life, but he is not at all sure that your dates with him are precisely love encounters, and not just friendly get-togethers.
If you score 12-21 points
Are you sure you want to be with this man? Maybe you are so lonely that even these rare meetings give you pleasure? By the way, such a relationship has no prospects. The only exception is this situation - you only met him yesterday, and you still have no past together at all.

Scorpion
If you scored 40-48 points
Your man is internally ready for long and serious relationship, but still is in no hurry to burden her passport with a marriage stamp. He has a lot of other things to do, and there are so many people around sexy women! However, he will be loyal to you in his own way, helping you in your career and in your household. If you are ready to turn a blind eye to his going “to the left”, if he understands that you are not going to keep him on a short leash, he will live a long and almost happy life with you.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your man likes to fool you. He deliberately does not take any steps towards a future together in order to see how you will “get out”. In some way, he arranges a test for you, after passing which, if you do not run away, you will receive his hand and heart as a prize.
If you scored 22-30 points
You are an example for this man ideal woman. Don’t meddle in his affairs and are always ready to experiment in sex. And he doesn’t need anything more from you. Do not rush to marry him, it will not give you pleasure. You will still be only a mistress for him, albeit with the status of a legal wife. He will not brighten up your loneliness; on the contrary, he will aggravate it, since while you are waiting for him at home, you will not even have the right to visits from friends.
If you score 12-21 points
This is not your person. A fleeting connection is all he can offer you, and not because you are bad, he just hasn’t tried everything yet, he is striving to go where it will be even more interesting and sweeter. And if you start holding him back, he will do anything to get rid of your obsessive presence.

Sagittarius
If you scored 40-48 points
Your man has already proven to you the seriousness of his intentions. Most likely, he has not separated himself from you for a long time, even if you have not yet formalized your relationship. Your loved one cares about what you eat for breakfast, what you wear to work, and what you get your mom for her birthday. It will be even better. Having become his wife, you will be sure that he will always ensure your well-being and well-being, especially if he sees your constant encouragement and admiration for his actions.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your man takes a responsible approach to all your requests, shows you devotion and worship, but is not yet ready to make you his wife. Perhaps he feels that he cannot provide you with a decent standard of living, but this is very important to him. If you earn many times more than he does, then it may also be a matter of pride - Sagittarius cannot tolerate the superiority of a woman in what they consider male responsibilities.
If you scored 22-30 points
Your man is only assessing you; you meet some of his specific needs, but otherwise you are a cause for concern. Perhaps he is afraid of your independence, and he does not want to be an “appendage” of your social status. You can fix the situation by secretly finding him a good place work, without advertising that it was you who made sure that he was on the same level with you.
If you score 12-21 points
This person does not see you as a faithful companion. He enjoys spending time with you, but he would also enjoy watching football and drinking beer with his neighbor. For him, you are something like an electronic chess partner: bored - turn it on, play, turn it off. Most likely, he has a secret lover to whom he is afraid to confess his feelings, but this is not you.

Capricorn
If you scored 40-48 points
Congratulations! You - Strong woman. Not everyone can be so charming with Capricorn. Maybe you are his boss? In any case, he sees in you a way to get to the very top of the career and social ladder, so he will love and please you in every possible way. You were able to prove to him your indispensability and your influence, and therefore he will eat from your hands. At least until he reaches a position in which you can no longer help him. However, there is a possibility that by this time he will be so used to you that he will be too lazy to change anything.
If you scored 31-39 points
Don't flatter yourself. Phone calls and this person's visits do not give you reason to think that he is going to propose to you. You are an intermediate link, he is passing through you. Most likely, the bouquet and candy period will remain the first and last. This man needs to show up at parties with someone.
If you scored 22-30 points
For this person, you are anything but a potential wife. He may like you, but he does it in his own sophisticated manner. You can continue your relationship with this man if you enjoy hearing stories about his women, his work and his money.
If you score 12-21 points
You won't wait for him to leave you. You will run away from him yourself, and even change your phone number so that he does not bother you. Most likely, you yourself have already figured out what “treasure” life has confronted you with, and you took the test purely out of curiosity.

Aquarius
If you scored 40-48 points
This is absolutely your man. He understands you perfectly and really wants to have a common home and children with you. Most likely, he was bribed by common interests; he likes not only to sleep with you, but also to talk. You have every chance to live with this man all your life, and even in old age you will not get bored of each other. Such couples grow old beautifully together and often become like-minded people. That is, you will be this man not only a wife, but also, perhaps, a “comrade in arms.”
If you scored 31-39 points
For now, you are only a companion for this person - in work, on trips to museums or theaters, in interesting conversations. But the further you go, the more clearly he understands that you are a worthy candidate for the role of a wife, and that he will not be bored with you. And if you don’t get tired of waiting and don’t go over to the “enemy camp,” then he will appreciate you and make you an offer.
If you scored 22-30 points
He only has fun with you and goes home to sleep. And it’s not a fact that another woman isn’t waiting for him there under the blanket. If this man suits you as a lover or friend, leave everything as it is. Don't pretend to be more. If he still hasn’t decided to change your last name to his, then he won’t decide anymore. And if you dream of a family, then look for another man.
If you score 12-21 points
To be with this man, you will have to completely change yourself, tune in to his wave, become the same as him. It's called "brain recoding surgery." Are you ready for such a feat? Take action! And if you are not ready, then do not waste your time on this person.

Fish
If you scored 40-48 points
You and this man will make a wonderful harmonious couple. He will work for the benefit of the family and go out on the sly, and you will wait for him at home and raise the children. Moreover, both of you will be happy - he will receive a faithful and incurious wife, and you - good husband. I'm not kidding. The more he sins, the more he will love you, and the more actively he will fight for the well-being of the family. The main thing is that your feminine pride does not push you into retaliatory adultery - what is allowed to Jupiter is not allowed to the bull. So don’t pay attention to his sprees, he still only loves you.
If you scored 31-39 points
Your man is subconsciously ready to see you as the mother of his children, but is not yet sure that he dreams of calling you his wife. He goes with the flow, subject to certain circumstances. Perhaps, if you get pregnant, he will propose to you, as he will be presented with a fait accompli. But as long as he is satisfied with everything without the need to take on additional obligations, he will continue to fool you.
If you scored 22-30 points
You are just a lover for this person. And although he claims that this word comes from the word “love,” he only allows you to love himself and will not reshape his life for you. He is too comfortable in his current position, and he doesn’t care about your feelings and expectations.
If you score 12-21 points
Satisfying his momentary whims, he never thinks about you, he will appear for 15 minutes, quickly have sex with you and run on. He is not interested in how you live without him, he erases you from his life as soon as he puts on his pants. And even if he gives you some gifts and flowers, it’s only because he’s supposed to. Needless to say, as long as you allow him to treat you this way, he will see you, if you start demanding more, he will evaporate and go look for another patient “friend.”

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